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संवाद


संवाद 

२१ विं सदी की जीवन शैली और महानगरीय जीवन की आपाधापी के बीच अगर हम किसी महत्वपूर्ण चीज़ को खोते जा रहे हैं तो वह है ‘संवाद' . 

हमने, अपने आप को, रोज़मर्रा की भागमभाग और व्यस्तता के बंधनों में इस तरह बांध लिया है की संवाद के लिये और संवाद के महत्व को समझने का समय ही नहीं निकाल पा रहे।

मित्रों से किया जाने वाला बे-झिझक संवाद, जीवन संगिनी से किया जाने वाला प्रेम-पूर्ण अथवा नोक-झोंक से परिपूर्ण संवाद, माता~पिता से समस्याओं को साझा करने और सुलझाने के लिये किया जाने वाला संवाद। ये सभी संवाद अगर जीवन में ना हो तो इस व्यस्त जीवन शैली के सभी द्वन्द हमें अकेले ही लड़ने होंगे। और मेरे विचार में, हममें से किसी में भी इतना सामर्थ्य नही है की अकेले इन द्वंद्वों का सामना कर सके, उन पर विजय पाना तो दूर की बात है। 

अपनों के  साथ बैठना, उनसे मन की बातें कहना, कुछ उनकी सुनना और कुछ अपनी सुनाना। सलाह लेना, अपने विचार व्यक्त करना और विभिन्न मशवरों को साथ लेकर दुविधाओं से निपटने के लिए कारगर उपाय सोचना, इन सभी बातों का जीवन में आभाव सा आ गया है।  या यूँ कहें की ये सभी बातें हमारे जीवन से नदारत हो चुकी हैं।  

संवाद की इस अनुपस्थिति का ही परिणाम है कि हममें से हर कोई, तकनीकी तौर पर सैकड़ों लोगों से जुड़ा हुआ होते हुए भी, वास्तविक जीवन में एकाकी है । 

संवाद, चर्चा, सलाह, मशवरा, अपनों से वार्तालाप ये कुछ ऐसी चीज़ें है जिनका महत्व अभी विगत कुछ महीनों में कुछ अपनों (मित्रों और क़रीबी व्यक्तियों) को संवाद की कमी के चलते खोने पर समझ आया है।

संवाद और सार्थ़क संवाद जीवन के अभिन्न और अत्यावश्यक पहलू हैं, ये समझने और उस दिशा में कारगर कदम उठाने का यह उचित समय है।

अमोल 

Comments

  1. SagarFebruary 8, 2019 at 10:29 PM

    So true Amol, we are flooded with various type of contacts.. Friends group, family group, business group, colony group bla bla. .
    Every 15 mint we get some or other call to speak with, or we tend to follow people for our work.
    We dont have time to pour out our heart...Not even with our better half..
    Technology is bliss or "Shaap" is really worth debatable topic now. .

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  2. suyogFebruary 8, 2019 at 11:10 PM

    गुरुवर्य,
    आपने संवाद के बारें में इतना सहज शब्दों में बताया की वाकहि संवाद की कमी जीवन में महसूस होनें लगीं है। आपके शब्द और हिंदी भाषा में संवाद लाज़वाब है।👍 ☺

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  3. MarutiFebruary 9, 2019 at 4:45 AM

    Good one Amol.

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  4. Pushkar MahadikFebruary 9, 2019 at 6:36 PM

    Kya baat sirjee.. something to think about

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  5. RupeshNovember 24, 2019 at 4:57 AM

    Hi Amol just searching you on internet and landed here which is very relevant pls drop a mail to me to reconnect.

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    1. Amol ApteNovember 24, 2019 at 6:19 AM

      @Rupesh you can write into me at amolapte1@gmail.com

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  6. Sachin GuptaFebruary 3, 2020 at 12:42 AM

    This is the Truth of today's life. We are connected via technology and loosing the emotions. Everyone is busy doing their job and trying to be the superior professionally but not trying to be Successful in Real life.
    We have to rethink about our Parents, friends and family.
    God bless everyone.

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